The YES

Okay, so here's what we've been noticing lately

Have you ever scrolled through Instagram, seen one of those gorgeous intimate weddings with like 30 people, and thought "wait... maybe big isn't for me"?

Yeah. We see that all the time. And honestly? That feeling is telling you something important.

Micro-weddings are kind of having a moment right now - and not in a trendy way. In a "this actually makes so much sense" way. So if you've been feeling torn about whether you should go big or keep it small, let us walk you through why a micro-wedding could be exactly what you need.

What even is a micro-wedding?

Let's clear this up real quick. A micro-wedding is usually under 50 guests. That's it.

It's intimate. It's personal. And every single person there is someone who truly matters to you. Here's the thing - it's not just "small for the sake of small." It's a chance to make your day exactly how you want it. You can splurge on things that really matter, like an amazing photographer or incredible food, without stressing about stretching your budget across 200 people.

The pressure of "traditional" weddings? Totally normal

If you've been feeling anxious about inviting your entire extended family or your co-workers from the office, you're not alone.

Society has convinced us that weddings have to be massive productions. But here's the truth: you're not behind, you're not missing out, and choosing a smaller celebration doesn't make your day any less special. In fact, it often makes it more you.

Micro-weddings are all about quality over quantity - your guest list is full of people who genuinely celebrate you and your partner, not people who feel obligated to show up.

Why a micro-wedding could be a game-changer

Let's get real. There are some serious perks to going micro:

You'll actually enjoy planning. Fewer guests means fewer moving parts. You can focus on the details that matter instead of drowning in logistics. Your budget goes further - no more compromising on your dream dress or cutting the dessert bar. You can reallocate funds to things that truly make your day magical.

Personal touches actually shine. Think customized menus, handwritten notes, or a live musician who knows your favorite song. With fewer people, those touches don't get lost. You get real time with your people - no one's standing awkwardly at the bar while you're taking a thousand photos with distant relatives. You actually get to talk to the humans you love.

Venue options open up. That dreamy Airbnb or boutique space you've been eyeing? Totally doable now. Honestly, it's like trading the chaos of a traditional wedding for a day that actually feels like yours.

How to make your micro-wedding feel big on meaning

Even though it's small, there are plenty of ways to make the day feel huge:

Choose a venue that speaks to you. Cozy gardens, intimate barns, rooftop terraces - whatever makes you swoon. We've seen couples transform small spaces into absolute magic. Prioritize experiences over extras and focus on what you and your guests will remember. Interactive food stations, personalized cocktails, heartfelt toasts from your best friend.

Make the guest list count. Invite the people who truly celebrate you, not just anyone you feel you "should." Go luxe with your budget - fewer people means more room to splurge on those items that will make your heart sing. A stunning bouquet? Chef-level catering? Yes, please.

Document it well. Photography and videography are worth it. These memories are for you, not anyone else. Your wedding doesn't need to tick boxes to be "perfect." It needs to feel perfect to you.

Want to see how couples are creating intimate, meaningful celebrations at our venues? Book a tour and we'll show you what's possible when you go small on size and big on love.

The emotional perks are real

Here's something we don't talk about enough: smaller weddings can be more emotionally fulfilling.

You're not running from table to table trying to say hi. You're present. You notice the little moments - your partner's reaction during your vows, your best friend crying in the front row, that perfect bite of cake. Those are the things you'll remember forever.

Micro-weddings let you slow down, soak it in, and actually enjoy the day without feeling pulled in a million directions. And that? That's priceless.

A gentle reality check

We know what you might be thinking: "But what about Grandma? Or my high school friend?"

Listen, that's a normal worry. And here's the thing - there are ways to include people without packing them in. Stream the ceremony online for friends and family far away. Host a casual brunch or dinner later with anyone who couldn't make it. Make a memory book or video to share afterward.

Your micro-wedding isn't excluding anyone - it's about celebrating the people who are there in a way that matters. And that? That's a win for everyone.

Here's what we actually want you to take from this

If your gut is whispering "small might be better," trust it.

Micro-weddings are about authenticity, connection, and less stress. You'll have more energy to actually enjoy your day, laugh with your people, and make memories that stick. So don't worry about the guest list. Focus on the love, the laughter, and the little moments that make your heart full - those are what you'll remember forever.

Ready to see where your intimate celebration could happen? We offer micro wedding discounts at all of our locations. Explore our venues and let's create something that's completely, authentically yours.

Until next time! Your "Yes" Team ♥️